Being asked to be a groomsman is an honour—but let’s be real, it’s also a responsibility. From suiting up to showing up, you’re not just there for the wedding photos—you’re there to support the groom and bring your A-game.
At Modus Operandi Sydney, we help groomsmen look sharp, feel confident, and handle their role like a pro. Here’s your ultimate guide to nailing it—without the awkward group chat stress.
What to Wear: Sharp, Stylish, and Cohesive
The number one rule? Coordinate without competing. The groom should always stand out, but you still need to look your best.
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✔ The Suit: Stick to the wedding colour palette and dress code. Classic navy, grey, or black are timeless choices.
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✔ The Shirt: A crisp white or light-toned shirt keeps things clean and formal.
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✔ The Accessories: Tie, pocket square, cufflinks, belt—coordinate with the rest of the party but don’t overdo it.
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✔ The Shoes: No dirty sneakers allowed. Polished dress shoes are a must.
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What to Gift: Thoughtful but Easy
It’s tradition to get the groom a small gift—especially if you’re the best man. It doesn’t need to be flashy, just something personal and meaningful.
- ✔ A sleek watch, monogrammed cufflinks, or a handwritten note.
- ✔ Bonus points if it’s something he can wear on the day.
What to Do: Your Groomsman Duties (Simplified)
You're not just there to drink and dance—you're part of the support crew. Here's what’s expected:
- ✔ Pre-Wedding: Attend suit fittings, help organise the bucks party, and be available for rehearsals.
- ✔ On the Day: Be on time, stay ready, keep the groom calm, and help guests when needed.
- ✔ During the Event: Pose for photos, mingle with guests, and hit the dance floor when it's time.
Bonus Tip: Be Reliable
Don’t ghost the groom. Weddings can be stressful—your job is to make it easier, not harder. Suit up, show up, and be the guy everyone can count on (and the one who looks good doing it).
Final Thoughts
Being a groomsman isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present, dependable, and damn well-dressed. From what you wear to how you show up, it all matters. And with Modus Operandi Sydney on your side, you’ll have one less thing to worry about.
Need help dressing your groomsmen? Book a fitting, lock in your look, and find your M.O.